also the time i really learned what sanctimonious really mean

I love this:

Seriously any time you ever feel sanctimonious I can guarantee that you are wrong - it's the feeling you get when you are avoiding complexity, when you want a lovely unsophisticated feeling of clear, honest vindictiveness and you feel utterly justified.

It’s been on my mind many times since first reading it.

From here:

http://yetanotherbloomingblog.blogspot.com/2011/02/fllphfthghflmph.html